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8 Powerful Phrases to Use When a Toxic Person Belittles You

1 month ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

When someone tries to make you feel small, the first reaction is usually silence or self-doubt. I’ve been there too. It’s uncomfortable, awkward, and sometimes it can even ruin your day. But here’s the truth: toxic people do it on purpose. To feel good about themselves. They want to shake your confidence. And they love it when you start questioning yourself. It’s how they feel powerful…by putting you down.
8 Mind Traps Narcissists Use to Confuse and Abuse You (& How to Outsmart Them)

1 month ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

Ever felt like every time you try to bring up a problem with a narcissist, you somehow end up being the bad guy? Like you’re the one apologizing, even though they started it? I’ve been there, many times. And now, from experience, I can tell you this: that’s not random. It’s a pattern. And it’s one they use on purpose to confuse and manipulate you. Narcissists use sneaky psychological traps to twist reality and make you the villain. The goal? To keep control, avoid accountability, and wear you down.
How to Make a Malignant Narcissist Regret Hurting and Abusing You

Feb 14, 2025 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

If you’ve ever been hurt by a malignant narcissist, you know how much damage they can do. They can be cruel. They cheat, manipulate, and play with your emotions, all while making you feel like you’re the problem. But the reality is they only win if you let them. The best way to make them regret hurting you isn’t through revenge. It’s by taking back your power, healing, and becoming someone they can never control again. (Which we’re going to discuss in detail below).
12 Signs Someone Is a Narcissist, Even If They Seem Charming at First

Feb 13, 2025 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

I’ve met a lot of people who seemed amazing at first—charming, confident, fun to be around. But over time, some of them showed a completely different side. The truth is, narcissists don’t walk around with warning signs on their foreheads. They often seem like the most charismatic people in the room. At first, they make you feel special, like you’ve met someone truly extraordinary. But if you look closely, the red flags start to show.
7 Signs a Narcissist Is Using Triangulation Against You

Feb 12, 2025 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

If you’ve ever dealt with a narcissist, you’ve probably noticed how they often cause drama between people on purpose. In fact, they absolutely love it. So, how do they do it exactly? Well, they create tension, and put people against each other. This is called triangulation, and it’s one of their favorite manipulation tactics. I’ve been there years ago and it was emotionally exhausting. I didn’t know what was happening and I ended up believing I was the problem.
10 Things Narcissists Hate More Than Anything (And How to Use Them to Your Advantage)

Feb 5, 2025 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

If you have a narcissist in your life, you probably know how much they love control. They want attention, power, and the ability to influence how you feel. They twist things, manipulate situations, and do whatever it takes to stay in control. And if you’re on the receiving end, well, it’s exhausting, right? I’ve seen so many people struggle with toxic narcissists who drain their energy and make them doubt themselves. But here’s something you need to know: you have more power than you think.
How to Make a Narcissist Miserable: 14 Steps

Jan 25, 2025 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

Let’s be honest, dealing with a narcissist can feel like a living hell. Their toxic and manipulative behavior can leave you drained, confused, miserable and questioning yourself. But there are ways to take back control and leave them powerless. Below are practical steps you can take to protect yourself, re-build your confidence, and make them miserable in the process. Why listen to me? I’m Sira Mas and I’m a relationship coach. I write about self-improvement, love, dating and psychology.
7 Best Winter Outfits with Boots

Dec 2, 2024 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

Winter is the season for cozy layers, and for me, boots are an absolute must-have. They’re warm, practical, and stylish, making them the perfect finishing touch to almost any outfit. Whether I’m heading out for errands or dressing up for a special occasion, boots are always part of the look. Here are seven winter outfits with boots that I swear by—they’re cozy, chic, and easy to pull off. This is one of my favorite outfits when I want to look stylish but stay comfortable.
The Best Winter Outfits, By an Italian Personal Shopper

Dec 1, 2024 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

Winter is the perfect time to layer up in cozy yet stylish outfits that keep you warm while feeling confident…and gorgeous! Whether you’re heading out for a casual coffee date, braving the chill for a workday, or dressing up for a winter party, these outfit ideas have you covered. Here’s a list of winter outfits that are not only practical but also chic. A close-fitting wool top paired with high-quality leggings is a winter wardrobe essential.
Use Feminine Energy to Make Him Obsessed With You

Nov 30, 2024 | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

Feminine energy is a magnetic quality that can draw people toward you almost effortlessly—and in particular, I’m talking about attracting men. When you embrace and channel this energy authentically, you become irresistible. You become addictive. But this isn’t about manipulation or playing games; it’s about tapping into your true essence and radiating confidence, warmth, and softness. Here’s how you can make any man obsess over you by using your feminine energy.