The Truly Charming

2 months ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

If you’ve ever been hurt by a malignant narcissist, you know how much damage they can do. They can be cruel. They cheat, manipulate, and play with your emotions, all while making you feel like you’re the problem. But the reality is they only win if you let them. The best way to make them regret hurting you isn’t through revenge. It’s by taking back your power, healing, and becoming someone they can never control again. (Which we’re going to discuss in detail below).

2 months ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

I’ve met a lot of people who seemed amazing at first—charming, confident, fun to be around. But over time, some of them showed a completely different side. The truth is, narcissists don’t walk around with warning signs on their foreheads. They often seem like the most charismatic people in the room. At first, they make you feel special, like you’ve met someone truly extraordinary. But if you look closely, the red flags start to show.

2 months ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

If you’ve ever dealt with a narcissist, you’ve probably noticed how they often cause drama between people on purpose. In fact, they absolutely love it. So, how do they do it exactly? Well, they create tension, and put people against each other. This is called triangulation, and it’s one of their favorite manipulation tactics. I’ve been there years ago and it was emotionally exhausting. I didn’t know what was happening and I ended up believing I was the problem.

2 months ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

If you have a narcissist in your life, you probably know how much they love control. They want attention, power, and the ability to influence how you feel. They twist things, manipulate situations, and do whatever it takes to stay in control. And if you’re on the receiving end, well, it’s exhausting, right? I’ve seen so many people struggle with toxic narcissists who drain their energy and make them doubt themselves. But here’s something you need to know: you have more power than you think.

2 months ago | thetrulycharming.com | Sira Mas

Let’s be honest, dealing with a narcissist can feel like a living hell. Their toxic and manipulative behavior can leave you drained, confused, miserable and questioning yourself. But there are ways to take back control and leave them powerless. Below are practical steps you can take to protect yourself, re-build your confidence, and make them miserable in the process. Why listen to me? I’m Sira Mas and I’m a relationship coach. I write about self-improvement, love, dating and psychology.