
Allison Raskin
Host at Just Between Us
Writer at Emotional Support Lady
Writer, podcaster, mental heath advocate and relationship coach. My new romcom novel SAVE THE DATE is out now!
Articles
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1 week ago |
emotionalsupportlady.substack.com | Allison Raskin
My mom had a tradition the night before my birthday. She would stay until midnight in New York—which wasn’t difficult given her aversion to going to bed—and call me at 9 p.m. Pacific time to wish me a happy East Coast birthday. I always made sure I was available for the call and would often wait with the phone in my hand to hear her welcome me, three hours early, into my new year. This Thursday night, my mom won’t be able to keep up our lovely tradition because she is dead.
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2 weeks ago |
emotionalsupportlady.substack.com | Allison Raskin
When I was a teenager, I was walking past the local train station when a man with a briefcase asked if he could borrow money for a ticket. I don’t remember the specifics but I’m sure it had something to do with him losing his wallet. Giving him the benefit of the doubt, I not only gave him money I also gave him my address so he could repay me later. When I relayed this story to my parents, they were…pissed. How could I have not seen that this man was clearly lying?
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3 weeks ago |
emotionalsupportlady.substack.com | Allison Raskin
Everything is going to change, new parents tell you ominously. The life you knew before, where you prioritized your own well-being, will soon be a thing of the past. Sleep is off the table as is any sense of bodily autonomy for those of us who plan to breastfeed. You will have to adapt to a different version of yourself in order to survive. Fine, I think. I am not that attached to this version of me anyway. In fact, lately, I haven’t been attached to anything at all. This post is for paid subscribers
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1 month ago |
emotionalsupportlady.substack.com | Allison Raskin
Back in January, my husband and I had a difficult conversation. We were sitting in my dad’s house in New York, on the same couch where my mother had lost control of her body just a few months before. Perhaps it was this recent loss of my mom that emboldened me to be so direct. John and I were discussing the potential end of our relationship, not skirting around it but looking the possibility right in the face, and yet I felt eerily calm. My life had already turned upside down once.
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1 month ago |
emotionalsupportlady.substack.com | Allison Raskin
“What are you doing for Mother’s Day?”I shouldn’t have been surprised so many people asked me this, with a hint of concern. It was a double whammy of a holiday for me this year. The first May without my mom and the first time I’ve ever been a mom-to-be. I imagine most of my friends thought I’d be an emotional wreck, spending the day sobbing and/or honoring my mother’s unparalleled impact on my life. I did neither.
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