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1 week ago | 
nj.com | Annie Lane
DEAR ANNIE: After 45 years of marriage to a man who has no hobbies, no real friends of his own and little interest in life outside of his routine, I’m struggling with a mix of guilt, resentment and sadness. For decades, I lived under his controlling ways -- so much so that when I finally started doing things for myself, I felt guilty for not “checking in.” I know that guilt is a result of years of being managed and silenced.
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1 week ago | 
gillettenewsrecord.com | Annie Lane
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1 week ago | 
sanduskyregister.com | Annie Lane
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1 week ago | 
dcourier.com | Annie Lane
Dear Annie: After 45 years of marriage to a man who has no hobbies, no real friends of his own and little interest in life outside of his routine, I'm struggling with a mix of guilt, resentment and sadness. For decades, I lived under his controlling ways - so much so that when I finally started doing things for myself, I felt guilty for not "checking in." I know that guilt is a result of years of being managed and silenced. He never saw it as control; for him, this dynamic was just "normal."
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1 week ago | 
adn.com | Annie Lane
Dear Annie: After 45 years of marriage to a man who has no hobbies, no real friends of his own and little interest in life outside of his routine, I’m struggling with a mix of guilt, resentment and sadness. For decades, I lived under his controlling ways — so much so that when I finally started doing things for myself, I felt guilty for not “checking in.” I know that guilt is a result of years of being managed and silenced.
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1 week ago | 
clintonherald.com | Annie Lane
Dear Annie: I am 40 years old, and my husband is 44. When we first got together, he treated me well, but things changed. Now, whenever I visit him, he drinks heavily and becomes violent. He has beaten me more than once, and I am ashamed to say it has happened many times. He has also cheated on me. He has four children, and despite everything, I still help him when he needs something. But he often blames me, blocks my calls and speaks cruelly to me.
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1 week ago | 
spokesman.com | Annie Lane
Dear Annie: I am 40 years old, and my husband is 44. When we first got together, he treated me well, but things changed. Now, whenever I visit him, he drinks heavily and becomes violent. He has beaten me more than once, and I am ashamed to say it has happened many times. He has also cheated on me. He has four children, and despite everything, I still help him when he needs something. But he often blames me, blocks my calls and speaks cruelly to me.
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1 week ago | 
gillettenewsrecord.com | Annie Lane
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1 week ago | 
creators.com | Annie Lane
Dear Annie: My husband and I recently agreed to sell our old lounge furniture, since we're in the process of buying a new set. We made the decision together, so I assumed we'd also agree on who it would be sold to. He later called to say he found a buyer, which I was happy to hear — until he added a twist. The buyer would be paying in monthly installments.
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1 week ago | 
arcamax.com | Annie Lane
Dear Readers: Today is Father's Day, a day that means something different to each of us. For some, it is a time to fire up the grill, hand Dad a new set of tools and enjoy the kind of quiet, comfortable time that fathers often prefer. For others, it is a bittersweet day, filled with memories, longing or unresolved emotions. Wherever you find yourself today, this letter is for you. If your dad is still with you, pick up the phone. Sit beside him.
