Geoff Steurer

1 week ago | latterdaysaintmag.com | Geoff Steurer

QuestionMy 14 year-old daughter doesn’t want to talk much with her father or spend any time with him.  She says “hello”, “good morning”, and “good night” and will answer a question, if asked.  For the past two years, she’s been feeling like he doesn’t really listen to her, he doesn’t understand her, rarely wants to bend or be flexible on issues, and they’ve had many, many arguments which I believe were unnecessary. We are married and live together, but don’t have a good marriage.

2 weeks ago | cedarcityutah.com | Geoff Steurer

My husband left my children and me more than 20 years ago for another woman. He was addicted to pornography and had multiple affairs, ultimately ending in his decision to divorce. My grown children, especially two of my sons, are still left with a lot of pain from the rejection and his emotional abuse before he left, although they have all tried to do their best and be good children to him under difficult circumstances. He married the woman he left us for.

2 weeks ago | stgeorgeutah.com | Geoff Steurer

Question: My husband left my children and me more than 20 years ago for another woman. He was addicted to pornography and had multiple affairs, ultimately ending in his decision to divorce. My grown children, especially two of my sons, are still left with a lot of pain from the rejection and his emotional abuse before he left, although they have all tried to do their best and be good children to him under difficult circumstances. He married the woman he left us for.

2 weeks ago | latterdaysaintmag.com | Geoff Steurer

QuestionMy husband left my children and me more than 20 years ago for another woman. He was addicted to pornography and had multiple affairs, ultimately ending in his decision to divorce. My grown children, especially two of my sons, are still left with a lot of pain from the rejection and his emotional abuse before he left, although they have all tried to do their best and be good children to him under difficult circumstances. He married the woman he left us for.

3 weeks ago | stgeorgeutah.com | Geoff Steurer

Question: When my husband and I are fighting or there is tension between us, our teenage kids feel it. They often ask what’s going on, and I’m not always sure how to answer their questions. I want them to be honest with me when I question them, but how do I respond appropriately to them so they don’t feel confused without giving them the details and struggles of our marriage? I want to build healthy relationships with all of them, but I worry I say too much or not enough at times.