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Nov 14, 2023 | nytimes.com | Anna Martin |Julia Botero |Christina Djossa |Hans Buetow

Julia Botero, Christina Djossa, Hans Buetow and Jen Poyant and Dan Powell, Carole Sabouraud and ‘His earnest love had become repulsive, imagining the way he wanted to care for me. The inevitable loyalty and acceptance and protection filled my throat with bile.’When Jessica Slice started dating a man named David, there was a lot to like about him. They could nerd out about books and board games. He was thoughtful and kind. But Jessica had a problem. The more caring David was, the more she recoiled.

Nov 14, 2023 | nyti.ms | Anna Martin |Julia Botero |Christina Djossa |Hans Buetow

Podcasts|He Cared About Me, So I Broke Up With Himhttps://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/15/podcasts/modern-love-he-cared-about-me-breakup.htmlNov. 15, 2023For years, Jessica Slice had dumped any guy who was kind to her. Could she break the cycle? transcriptMore episodes ofModern LovePublished Nov. 15, 2023Updated Nov. 16, 2023Julia Botero, Christina Djossa, Hans Buetow and Jen Poyant and Dan Powell, Carole Sabouraud and ‘His earnest love had become repulsive, imagining the way he wanted to care for me.

Oct 31, 2023 | nytimes.com | Anna Martin |Julia Botero |Christina Djossa |Hans Buetow

Julia Botero, Christina Djossa, Hans Buetow, Emily Lang and Jen Poyant and Dan Powell, Pat McCusker and ‘It was more than a workout. I kind of wanted this to be torture.’Christi Clancy had been avoiding her best friend’s ex-husband. He’d unexpectedly left her friend for another woman. After supporting her friend through the pain and heartbreak, Christi couldn’t help but resent the ex-husband for all the damage he’d done.

Oct 24, 2023 | nytimes.com | Anna Martin |Julia Botero |Christina Djossa |Hans Buetow

Julia Botero, Christina Djossa, Hans Buetow and Jen Poyant and Dan Powell, Marion Lozano, Pat McCusker, Rowan Niemisto and ‘I’d never seen my father really happy before. I’d never seen his love for me shine through. But here it was.’Heather Sellers wrote her Modern Love essay in 2013, about reconnecting with her elderly, estranged father. Although their relationship was painful, Heather made sure that her last words to her father were “I love you.” And at the time, that felt like closure.

Oct 17, 2023 | nytimes.com | Anna Martin |Julia Botero |Christina Djossa |Hans Buetow

Julia Botero, Christina Djossa and Dan Powell, Pat McCusker, Diane Wong and ‘We both knew I would never choose a man for money. How could I walk away from him for my lack of it?’Deanna Fei did not need a man. She was in her 20s, living in Shanghai on a Fulbright scholarship, writing her first novel: a book about fiercely independent Chinese women, very much like Deanna herself.