Harris O'Malley

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Freelance Journalist and Host at Freelance

I write the stuff your friends share on Facebook at http://t.co/1gagcrJaLJ

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Articles

I’m An Ugly Loser And Nothing Will Fix Me Except A Hot Girlfriend! - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

4 days ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a late 20s university dropout in the UK, and I’ve f--ked up my life. See what happens is, when a relationship goes well, I get scared and run. As well as that, I don’t even realise I’m attracted to someone until about a month after I met them, at which point they’ve met someone.
Is My Friend Treating Me Like A Back-Up Boyfriend? - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

5 days ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a late 20s university dropout in the UK, and I’ve f--ked up my life. See what happens is, when a relationship goes well, I get scared and run. As well as that, I don’t even realise I’m attracted to someone until about a month after I met them, at which point they’ve met someone.
Help, I Don’t Know Why I’m Still Single! - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

1 week ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Picture the scene – an attractive guy walks into a dance workshop, effortlessly blending in with the class. He flashes a warm smile and laughs with each partner he gets paired up with. As the lights dim and it’s time for social dancing, he’s the first on the floor, confident and full of energy. He dances with a genuine smile, enjoying the experience, and isn’t bothered by little mistakes, laughing them off with ease. He doesn’t take himself too seriously.
Why Do Women Never Choose Me? - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

1 week ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

That’s me. And yet, despite all this, I’ve never once been on a date with a woman. I’m in my early thirties now, and most of the friendships I’ve had have been with the opposite sex. I’d like to think I strike a healthy balance with my masculinity: I’ve got quiet confidence, natural authority when needed, and firm boundaries. But I also have a good sense of humor, and I’m approachable, kind, and empathetic.
How Do I Date And Make Friends When I’m Flat Broke? - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

1 week ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Medium-time reader, first time writer. I have a weird relationship problem and I’m not sure how to handle it without causing more problems. I’ve been dating my girlfriend (let’s call her “Amanda”) for a while now, and for the most part, things are great. But there’s one thing that’s been bothering me, and it’s starting to eat away at the trust I’m trying so hard to build.��It’s her best friend “Hugo”, a guy she’s known for years.
I Dumped My Girlfriend And Now I Think I Made A Mistake! - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

1 week ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Medium-time reader, first time writer. I have a weird relationship problem and I’m not sure how to handle it without causing more problems. I’ve been dating my girlfriend (let’s call her “Amanda”) for a while now, and for the most part, things are great. But there’s one thing that’s been bothering me, and it’s starting to eat away at the trust I’m trying so hard to build.��It’s her best friend “Hugo”, a guy she’s known for years.
My Girlfriend’s Jealous BFF Is Trying To Ruin Our Relationship! - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

1 week ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

I have a weird relationship problem and I’m not sure how to handle it without causing more problems. I’ve been dating my girlfriend (let’s call her “Amanda”) for a while now, and for the most part, things are great. But there’s one thing that’s been bothering me, and it’s starting to eat away at the trust I’m trying so hard to build.��It’s her best friend “Hugo”, a guy she’s known for years. According to her, they’ve never dated, never hooked up, and she swears it’s purely platonic.
Did I Miss My Chance By NOT Hitting On My Friend? - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

2 weeks ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been stuck in my own head and I don’t know how to get out. Until a few years ago, I was significantly overweight. There are all sorts of reasons – unhealthy relationship with food, eating my feelings, convenience – but ultimately it came down to my choosing not to do anything about it. Eventually, I got tired of feeling bad about myself and decided to make changes.
Am I Making A Mistake By Dating A Single Mother? - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

2 weeks ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been stuck in my own head and I don’t know how to get out. Until a few years ago, I was significantly overweight. There are all sorts of reasons – unhealthy relationship with food, eating my feelings, convenience – but ultimately it came down to my choosing not to do anything about it. Eventually, I got tired of feeling bad about myself and decided to make changes.
How Do I Stop Comparing Myself To My Girlfriend’s Exes? - Ask Dr. Nerdlove

2 weeks ago | uexpress.com | Harris O'Malley

Until a few years ago, I was significantly overweight. There are all sorts of reasons – unhealthy relationship with food, eating my feelings, convenience – but ultimately it came down to my choosing not to do anything about it. Eventually, I got tired of feeling bad about myself and decided to make changes. I wasn’t aiming to lose a lot of weight, just to feel better about myself and my life, so I hit the gym hard, did my best to eat a healthier diet and ultimately lost around 40 lbs.