Ian Oliver

May 6, 2024 | nzherald.co.nz | Ian Oliver |Ian Oliver

"Relationships had a common theme – me not wanting sex and them, understandably, feeling rejected. Then it fizzled out."For years, Ian Oliver thought he was just bad at relationships. Here’s how he figured out what was really going on. Are you unhappy in a relationship you don’t feel is right, but you’re not sure why? Or keep repeating the same patterns again and again? There could be many reasons, of course. One that’s possibly never crossed your mind is being asexual.