Jennifer Fink

Wisconsin

Freelance Writer at Freelance

Founder and Editor at Building Boys Bulletin

Award-winning author Building Boys: Raising Great Guys in a World That Misunderstands Males. Freelance journalist. Co-host of ON BOYS podcast. Traveler. #Boymom

Articles

What Pulling Weeds Taught Me About Raising Boys

1 week ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

I’ve been thinking about roots lately. It’s partly because I’ve been gardening & partly because I recently attended the dedication of a historical marker, commemorating a town that no longer exits. I attended because my husband and I both have deep family roots in Fussville, a never-incorporated community that began as a settlement of German Catholic farmers. His dad grew up there, as did his dad’s dad and his dad’s dad’s dad before that.
Skip These At-Home Tests

2 weeks ago | nextavenue.org | Jennifer Fink

June Pomeroy is determined to do everything she can to live a long, healthy life. Her mother died of Alzheimer's disease, so when Pomeroy, a registered nurse, heard female doctors discussing the role hormones may play in supporting brain health, she decided it was time to check her hormone levels. Pomeroy, 72, started hormone therapy in her early 50s. She hoped a hormone test would help her health care providers tailor her treatment. But her doctor "wasn't into it," Pomeroy says.
They're Not So Dumb After All

2 weeks ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

Last Thursday, my youngest son came <this close> to driving into a tornado. We knew bad weather was headed our way. Storms, potentially strong ones, had been predicted & everything — the skies, updated weather reports — supported that prediction. We all expected strong thunderstorms; we did not expect a tornado.
They're Selling Boys Anxiety & Competition

3 weeks ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

I didn’t want to write about sperm racing. Sperm racing, to me, represents what’s wrong with American culture - while also telling us a lot about what’s going on with boys & men. Which is why I’m writing about it, despite my deep desire to not give these guys any additional attention. In case you missed it, a 17-year-old boy spearheaded a sperm racing contest that made headlines.
Otolaryngologists as Entrepreneurs: Transforming Patient Care And Practice

1 month ago | enttoday.org | Jennifer Fink

Don Gonzales, MD, was a third-year resident when he started his first company. His university’s technology transfer office wasn’t interested in his proposed nasal septal stapler because someone had previously patented a similar idea. But, Dr. Gonzales knew there were no devices for nasal septal stapling available to otolaryngologists. “No stapler was on the market,” he said, “because the original device that was patented didn’t work.
The Last Parenting Book You'll Ever Read w Meagan Francis

1 month ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink |Meagan Francis

Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! If you missed it, here’s the biggest thing you may need to know: Meagan & I, parents of 8 boys between us, agree on the worst age for boys. (Spoiler alert: It’s 15. It is absolutely 15.) This was my first Substack Live & it was easier than I thought. So I’m thinking…We, Building Boys community, should do more of these. What do you think? What would you like to see?
Perspectives on Parenting Boys

1 month ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

You’ve heard the old saying about missing the forest for the trees. That’s a really easy thing to do while parenting. It is so easy to hyperfocus on the current crisis du jour and lose sight of the bigger picture. Been there, done that! And I can tell you: It’s not all the helpful.
A Peek Inside...

1 month ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

Here’s a fun fact about me: I hate spending time or money on things that aren’t a sure value. My bank accounts (and bills!) tell me that I can’t afford to do so. And, like all of you, I am sick of influencers promising life-changing results and then…charging me more if I want anything of value. That’s why I’m letting you see what happens during Boost Boys’ Motivation, our interactive course for parents & others who care about boys.
What Are You Worried About?

1 month ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

Parents worry, a lot. It’s part of the gig - our worry literally helps keep our kids alive. It can also become dysfunctional and overwhelming. (I’m speaking from personal experience here!)This short clip is from our most recent ON BOYS podcast episode:(You can listen to the whole thing here.)We’ll talk more about worry — & what you can to to set down some of your unhelpful ones — in Boost Boys’ Motivation, which starts May 6.
Have an Unmotivated Boy?

1 month ago | buildingboys.substack.com | Jennifer Fink

Are you worried that your son doesn’t seem to care about anything? (Other than video games, social media, his sports team, and his friends.)This is super-common. And and super-annoying!You worry about his future — & wonder why he isn’t worried about his grades or future. It’s really easy to get stuck here. To go ‘round & ‘round in an endless circle of worrying & nagging. But — as you’ve probably already learned — that doesn’t really help. In fact, a lot of the time, it makes things worse.