Jessica Stoya

6 days ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya |Rich Juzwiak

Skip to the content Silly in Service to Something More Serious How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m an openly gay male who is a freshman in college. I didn’t have any opportunities to date or hook up in high school, and I’m enjoying navigating a world that is completely new to me.

1 week ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya

How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It,  My boyfriend is trying to get me to allow him to try something in bed. He wants to work his way up to fisting me but I’m nervous about it. Is it painful? Will I get permanently stretched out? Does it lead to greater chances of developing incontinence later in life? Any guidance would be appreciated.

1 week ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, In past relationships, I have put off lovemaking, but when the moment finally arrives, there have been more than a few instances where women have literally burst out laughing and left. Maybe you can guess the problem. Yes, I have a micropenis, and my romantic life has been almost non-existent as a result. The only long-term relationship that I have ever had lasted a year.

1 week ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya |Rich Juzwiak

How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 42-year-old woman who has been married for 19 years. I recently sent a playful photo to my husband that of me posing up against a wall in a restaurant that one of my friends took while out on a girls’ night. I enjoy sending him tasteful, flirty photos when we are apart—traveling for work or just out doing the things we enjoy on our own.

2 weeks ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya

Skip to the content Wondering What New Constitutional Crisis Awaits How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It,  I have a colostomy bag and could use some advice on how to explain this to romantic partners. Everything typically goes great with many of the men I go out with until the time for intimacy arrives.