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Jessica Stoya

Wilmington

Writer at Slate

Half of @slate's How To Do It sex advice column. @Fleshlight Girl. Often called things like “Sex Icon” and “Porno Diva.”

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  • 4 days ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya

    How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It,  I’m a 42-year-old, hetero-flexible woman who has always been a bit of a goody-two-shoes. I didn’t drink/smoke, got good grades, had one boyfriend in high school/college, etc. I’d long been proud of that, and cultivated that image among friends and family for sure.

  • 4 days ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya

    Skip to the content Spiraling About the Flop Era How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It,  My husband and I are both 67 and have been married/monogamous for 15 years. We are in reasonably good health, but for the last year, he has been struggling with erectile dysfunction, which we know is not uncommon at our age.

  • 1 week ago | slate.com | Rich Juzwiak |Jessica Stoya

    Skip to the content How to Do It Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to StoyaandRich here.It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My partner and I have been together for seven years. He’s 31 and I’m 27. Our relationship started very quickly, and we moved in together less than a year after first meeting.

  • 1 week ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya |Rich Juzwiak

    How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, A little less than three years ago, my husband “Antonio” was in a terrible motorcycle accident that left him with severe injuries, including the loss of his penis. He has been through several reconstructive surgeries, but the end result is more or less only good for allowing urination.

  • 1 week ago | slate.com | Jessica Stoya

    Skip to the content How to Do It How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It,  I am a woman who has a large bust (48 GG). There’s no way of getting around that this is the first thing people notice about me; obviously, I can’t take them off, and no amount of clothing is going to minimize it.

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Stoya
Stoya @stoya
11 Apr 24

RT @XBIZ: Stoya Makes Directorial Debut for ERIKALUST With 'If Only I Had a Dick' @stoya @erikalust @xcatknightx @calitafire https://t.co/i…

Stoya
Stoya @stoya
19 Sep 23

"I, on the couch in the previous night’s go-go outfit—a set of nude-ish band-aids over my nipples and a pair of fishnet tights repurposed as a shirt—said “I feel great about being naked.” https://t.co/LcG80nm0yf

Stoya
Stoya @stoya
19 Sep 23

RT @XBIZ: Jessica Stoya Launches 'StoyaStack' Substack @stoya https://t.co/jEHHOSS6dT https://t.co/Wwxc34JRUO