Justin J Lehmiller

Author and Writer at Freelance

Social psychologist, sex researcher, author, pinball wizard. Kinsey Institute Senior Research Fellow. Host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast.

Articles

Holiday Gift Ideas For The Sexy People In Your Life

Nov 26, 2024 | sexandpsychology.com | Justin J Lehmiller

In need of shopping inspiration for the sexy people in your life? Here are some sex-themed gift ideas and deals (mostly) inspired by science for everyone on your list. Give the Gift of Sexual Communication (and Orgasms!)Many people find it challenging to communicate about their sexual fantasies and desires because few of us ever learned how to communicate what we want.
The Best Kept Secret for Menopause Relief? Masturbation | Psychology Today

Sep 16, 2024 | psychologytoday.com | Justin J Lehmiller

New research finds that self-pleasure is one of the most effective tools for managing various symptoms of menopause, including sleep disturbances and mood changes.
3 Reasons To Use a Penis Pump

Sep 11, 2024 | sexandpsychology.com | Justin J Lehmiller

Sex Ed, Sex Tips September 12, 2024 by Justin Lehmiller **This post is sponsored by Xersizer. Penis pumps are valuable tools that can help men to improve their sexual well-being. In fact, research has shown that these devices have the potential to enhance men’s sex lives in multiple ways. In this post, we’ll discuss the history of penis pumps, how they work, and three scientifically-backed reasons why you might consider using one. Penis pumps have a surprisingly long history.
Why Gen Z Is the Kinkiest Generation Yet | Psychology Today

Sep 4, 2024 | psychologytoday.com | Justin J Lehmiller

Young adults today are fantasizing about and engaging in kink at higher rates than older generations. Shifting sexual norms have opened the door to exploring previous taboos.
Why Gen Z Is the Kinkiest Generation Yet | Psychology Today

Sep 4, 2024 | psychologytoday.com | Justin J Lehmiller

Young adults today are fantasizing about and engaging in kink at higher rates than older generations. Shifting sexual norms have opened the door to exploring previous taboos.
Is Rebound Sex a Good or Bad Idea? | Psychology Today

Jun 4, 2024 | psychologytoday.com | Justin J Lehmiller

Shortly after a breakup, many people have sex with a new partner in an attempt to move on. But is rebounding a helpful part of the healing process, or a stumbling block?
The 4 Legal Approaches To Sex Work

May 7, 2024 | sexandpsychology.com | Justin J Lehmiller

Sex Ed May 8, 2024 by Justin Lehmiller I’m currently in the midst of teaching a study abroad course on sex and culture in Amsterdam. One of the topics we cover extensively in this course is sex work, including the different legal frameworks that exist for it around the world. Here in the Netherlands, sex work is legal and government-regulated. Back home in the United States, it’s completely illegal almost everywhere.
How To Deal With Erectile Dysfunction

Apr 24, 2024 | sexandpsychology.com | Justin J Lehmiller

**This post is sponsored by MailMyMedsErectile Dysfunction (ED) affects millions of men across the globe, yet discussions surrounding it often remain in the shadows due to stigma and feelings of shame or embarrassment. According to recent data, 52% of men between the ages of 40 and 70 experience ED in the United States alone [1]. However, many younger men experience erectile difficulties as well.
Why Do We Blame Men For Their Own Sexual Difficulties?

Apr 18, 2024 | sexandpsychology.com | Justin J Lehmiller

In recent years, I’ve noticed what seems to be a growing tendency among many sexuality professionals to suggest that men are responsible for many their own sexual difficulties. The scenario usually goes something like this: a therapist poses a question to colleagues (either online or in person) seeking input on treating a male client who is presenting with an orgasmic issue.
Why an Expensive Ring May Predict a Short Marriage | Psychology Today Singapore

Feb 22, 2024 | psychologytoday.com | Justin J Lehmiller

Extravagant wedding spending is often viewed as a sign of love and commitment. However, research finds that those who spend the most have the shortest marriages.