Lewis Oakley
Co-Host at Bisexual Brunch
Journalist at Bisexual.org
Commentator, podcaster and bisexual blabbermouth. Find me on @BisexualBrunch @BiDotOrg Prev @VirginRadioUK Enquiries: [email protected]
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1 month ago |
bi.org | Lewis Oakley
Hi Lewis, I've been bi for years — an ex first found out and we worked through it together. But now my current (ex) found out after I sexted a trans girl. I know I shouldn't have done it but felt I had to hide that side of me because I was embarrassed and ashamed. Since then, she’s shut me out — both from the house and from seeing the kids. She says I’ve lied about everything and that she doesn’t even know who I am anymore.
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1 month ago |
bi.org | Lewis Oakley
Dear Lewis I recently came across a story about a woman in a relationship with a bisexual man. He wanted to stay romantically involved with another man while being in a relationship with her. It hit close to home. I’m a 43-year-old bi man, married to a 43-year-old straight woman. We've been together for 25 years, married for 21, and have two kids. Over time, what I think of as my “bi-cycle” — the pull toward same-gender connection — has only gotten stronger.
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2 months ago |
bi.org | Lewis Oakley
Hi Lewis, I am a 29-year-old bi man. I was in a beautiful three-year relationship with my girlfriend, whom I love very much, and we have a great emotional and physical connection. I had been attracted to men before, but I was always in denial of my sexuality. During my relationship, the curiosity was still there, and I went onto the apps to explore my sexuality and talk to men. Though I never met anyone, I knew it was still cheating.
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Feb 26, 2025 |
bi.org | Lewis Oakley
Dear Lewis, I recently started dating a wonderful man — charming, intelligent, and kind. After a few dates, he told me he’s bi and, in his previous marriage, had secretly explored this side of himself. He regrets not being honest, but now that he’s single, he says he needs both male and female connections to feel truly fulfilled. He’s asked me to accept this part of him, insisting it’s not about love but about a biological drive and mental well-being.
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Jan 29, 2025 |
bi.org | Lewis Oakley
Hi Lewis, I'll keep this one short and sweet. I've been wondering if it's worth coming out to my family. I see how they react whenever they see anything LGBT-related on TV, and it makes me question whether it’s even worth the effort. If I decide to stay quiet, though, am I being true to myself, or is that just another way of lying to who I am? Kiera Hi Kiera, Thanks so much for reaching out.
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