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  • 4 days ago | pallaviaiyar.substack.com | Pallavi Aiyar

    Dear Glonal Jigsaw, This weekend my spouse and I will celebrate our 20 year wedding anniversary with a group of friends from around the world, in the Spanish countryside. The Global Jigsaw is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Julio and I met 25 years ago and have spent these decades arguing our way across the multiple countries - China, Belgium, Indonesia, Japan and Spain – that we have lived in.

  • 1 week ago | pallaviaiyar.substack.com | Pallavi Aiyar

    Dear Global Jigsaw,I have now spent almost five years in my sasural - as the land of a woman’s in-laws is called in Hindi. The decision to move to Spain was not an easy one for me. For decades, my Spanish husband and I had flitted across foreign postings in Asia- China, Japan, Indonesia- places where we shared outsider status. Together, we made silly mistakes while bumbling about learning the syntax of unfamiliar streets.

  • 2 weeks ago | pallaviaiyar.substack.com | Pallavi Aiyar

    Dear Global Jigsaw,For this week’s post a reprisal of my piece on a little know Taoist temple in Beijing, which any China itinerary should (but never does) include. It’s delightful, not only for the glimpse it gives into the imagined Taoist hereafter, but also for what it reveals about China in the here and now. For China-watchers the temple is an excellent starting point in getting to grips with what makes the erstwhile Middle Kingdom tick.

  • 3 weeks ago | pallaviaiyar.substack.com | Pallavi Aiyar

    Dear Global Jigsaw,There is a meme doing the rounds on social media which made me crack a smile, because it resonated so deeply. “Be honest,” it read, “you are more likely to remember all the lyrics of a 1980s pop song than to remember why you just walked into the kitchen.” But behind my giggle, there was a nagging worry. Sometimes I feel I am losing my mind. Words - my long-standing playmates - have begun, on occasion, to skulk at the edges of recall.

  • 1 month ago | pallaviaiyar.substack.com | Pallavi Aiyar

    Dear Global Jigsaw,Does it make you happy? I have always tended to be skeptical of this, in-vogue, yardstick by which to adjudicate life’s big decisions. So much of what gives a life meaning- parenthood, health, discipline, friendships, learning a new skill- does not equate unalloyed happiness. It is difficult things that reward one with the most joy. “Happiness” is too easy to be consequential – like empty calories, a bag of potato chips. Perhaps it is semantic. What I call joy, you call happiness.