Shamiha Patel

Feb 17, 2024 | thinkingautismguide.com | Shamiha Patel |Shannon Rosa

Sensory Icks: The Tags, the Seams, the Itch—And Everything in BetweenHave you ever had a clothing tag itch on the back of your neck? Me too. For many neurodivergent people, a tag can feel like a cactus or sandpaper rubbing against their skin. While other items can trigger a similar sensation, tags are the ultimate “sensory icks” factor for me.

Dec 18, 2023 | yourtango.com | Shamiha Patel

I love my daughter. My love for her is more profound than the ocean demands self-sacrifice. I was 25 when I first got pregnant and had no idea I was autistic. It wasn’t until two years later that I realized I was on the spectrum, and it finally made sense why pregnancy felt like an invasive hell. I knew pregnancy would be a challenging experience for me, as I hate changes to my environment and am sensitive to excessive sounds, sights, and smells.

Nov 17, 2023 | yourtango.com | Shamiha Patel

Autistic parents are rarely acknowledged compared to autistic kids. In reality, there are far more resources for neurotypical parents with autistic children, which feeds into this concept that the world is far more accommodating towards neurotypical people. It’s no surprise that autistic mothers report having more depression and anxiety compared to neurotypical mothers. I was diagnosed with Autism and ADHD at 27, one year after becoming a mother.