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Som Dutt

Ludhiāna, New Delhi

Writer at Medium

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  • 1 month ago | embraceinnerchaos.com | Som Dutt

    Understanding covert narcissism can feel like solving a mystery. You might notice subtle manipulation, passive-aggressive behavior, or emotional withdrawal in certain relationships but struggle to pinpoint the cause. These traits often stem from covert narcissism—a less obvious but equally damaging form of narcissism. Research shows that covert narcissists tend to score lower on cognitive empathy, with a correlation coefficient of -0.23.

  • 1 month ago | embraceinnerchaos.com | Som Dutt

    Can covert narcissists fall in love? It’s a tough question, right? You might wonder if someone who masks their insecurities with subtle manipulation can truly connect with another person. The answer isn’t simple. Covert narcissists often confuse love with control or validation. Their emotional walls, built from fear and trauma, make genuine intimacy hard. Yet, love isn’t impossible for them. Understanding their complex inner world helps you see why their version of love feels so different.

  • 1 month ago | embraceinnerchaos.com | Som Dutt

    Have you ever wondered why your empathy and idealism seem to draw people who take advantage of your kindness? If you’re an INFJ, you might find that INFJs attract narcissists due to your deep emotional intelligence and sensitivity, which make you irresistible to them. They are drawn to how you validate their ego and provide the admiration they crave. Sometimes, your desire to help others or fix broken relationships can make you overlook red flags.

  • 1 month ago | embraceinnerchaos.com | Som Dutt

    Co-parenting with a covert narcissist can often feel like navigating a minefield. When co-parenting with a covert narcissist, you may encounter relentless blame-shifting or subtle control tactics cleverly disguised as concern for your child’s well-being. These behaviors can leave you feeling emotionally drained and isolated. However, the good news is that you’re not without options.

  • 1 month ago | embraceinnerchaos.com | Som Dutt

    Have you ever been blindsided by a breakup that left you wondering, “What just happened?” Relationships with covert narcissists often end this way—suddenly and without warning. You might feel like you were tossed aside for no reason, but there’s always a deeper motive. Covert narcissists don’t just leave; they discard. Their reasons can be hidden, manipulative, and tied to their insecurities. Understanding why the covert narcissist dumped you can help you make sense of the chaos and start healing.