
Heather Havrilesky
Writer and Author at Ask Molly
Writer at ask-polly.com
Author of Foreverland (Ecco 2022) + 3 other books + Ask Polly + Ask Molly on Substack. Illustration by Michael Sowa. Mastodon: @[email protected]
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1 week ago |
ask-polly.com | Heather Havrilesky
Kenningar (1961), Dorothea TanningThis is a letter I replied to a month ago. On Tuesday, I found it on my desktop, wrote a new reply, and republished it. When I discovered my error, I felt terrible and deleted the repeat column. The next day I wrote about my mistake. Some readers have said that they wish they hadn’t missed the repeat column, so I’m repu…
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1 week ago |
ask-polly.com | Heather Havrilesky
Yesterday morning, I ran the same letter I’d run a month ago, but with a different response. I had to rush out the door after posting, so I didn’t discover my mistake until the afternoon. At that point I was so disgusted with myself that I deleted the repeated column and then crumpled into a self-recriminating heap on my m…
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1 week ago |
ask-polly.com | Heather Havrilesky
Kenningar (1961), Dorothea TanningHi Polly. I am hoping you can help me release myself from a current loop of shame that I am really struggling with. I have loved your columns over the years and read them earnestly and apply the messages to my life with abandon. So, thank you. On the surface I have a very happy and nice life. I have a great husband, three…
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2 weeks ago |
ask-polly.com | Heather Havrilesky
On Avalon (1987), Dorothea TanningDearest Polly,I wrote to you about this some time ago, but reading your recent Ask Polly about dreams made me want to reach out again. It was something you said about not listening to someone who has killed their dreams. I've had so, so many in the past ten plus years. Many of them I have accomplished in some form or another. Starting a small press for comics and artist books, completing my BFA, having an art studio, starting a band.
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2 weeks ago |
ask-polly.com | Heather Havrilesky
Further Chaos (1988), Dorothea TanningHi Polly. Two years ago, I purposely destroyed a relationship with my ex-partner of 7 years. She wanted a polyamorous relationship and no matter how much I tried to do research and deal with my feelings of insecurity, I couldn’t do it. This lead to me being either willing to try it one day or completely against it the next day and I felt like such a terrible person for going back and forth on it.
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