Laurie Stone

4 weeks ago | theparisreview.org | Laurie Stone

By Laurie Stone April 17, 2025 Something has changed since Richard and I got married in December. I’m not sure what. Have you ever looked in the mirror and noticed you are able to cock one eyebrow higher than ever before? I’m happier. I didn’t imagine I would feel this way when I went downstairs to his studio and said, “I think we should get married.” He looked up from his book and said, “Okay.” Was he bemused, half smiling? I can’t remember.

Feb 9, 2025 | theshiftwithsambaker.substack.com | Laurie Stone |Amanda Montei

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Jun 10, 2024 | lauriestone.substack.com | Laurie Stone

As I read old notebooks, I see how, in time, I’ve come to rewrite my life in ways that are consoling. I have unsoured the grapes of the past. The story I invented of my earlier years is one of reliable success, few obstacles, and lots of help—a kind of table laid where I was invited to eat. Buon appetito!What memory has sanded down and that the notebooks show is the way I felt in the face of rejection. And how much rejection there was. I wasn't a hero for pressing on. I didn’t believe in my abilities.

May 26, 2024 | lauriestone.substack.com | Laurie Stone

In my twenties, I thought if a man responded to me sexually it meant he liked me, and if he liked me he knew me in some way. We were naked and felt pleasure. This was a kind of knowing, a kind of sympathy. Even if I knew little about the man and little about myself, and even if we didn’t understand the sentences we exchanged after sex. Even if things soon went, oh dear, goodbye. I’m in my thirties or forties when I reverse this understanding or wishful fantasy.

Apr 23, 2024 | theparisreview.org | Laurie Stone

By Laurie Stone April 23, 2024 I ruined a dinner party ten years ago in Phoenix. Among the guests was a judge who said abortion was an issue that reasonable people could disagree on, and I opened my mouth. At that time, Richard was teaching at the sprawling university in Tempe. We were at the home of two people who we were lucky even talked to us. The woman in the couple was a brilliant sculptor.