Lian Cho

6 days ago | liantomato.substack.com | Lian Cho

I still can’t believe my friends did all that for me!!!! It’s now my favorite shirt ever and they gave me 4 extra so I can wear one to death, give one to Adam and keep the other two to hang on a wall or something where it’ll never be exposed to the elements (my messy eating).

3 weeks ago | liantomato.substack.com | Lian Cho

Hello!! The wedding happened! It was last weekend and it was great. It went by in a bit of a blur so I’m currently in the process of making a couple diary posts as a way to remember all the little things that happened. Until then, I wanted to share a little preview of all the little details we made ourselves because it was a lot of fun designing everything for our wedding.

2 months ago | liantomato.substack.com | Lian Cho

On a final note, I wanted to share this poem that was up on the subway as I was leaving: little prayerby Danez Smithlet ruin end herelet him find honeywhere there was once a slaughterlet him enter the lion’s cage& find a field of lilacslet this be the healing& if not let it beAnyways, that’s all for now. Bye bye New York <3Am I Doing This Right? is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.

2 months ago | liantomato.substack.com | Lian Cho

Hi everyone! We have moved successfully and I am absolutely drained. I am also working on two books right now alongside unpacking/packing + settling in + planning a wedding so I haven’t had time/energy to work on a newsletter!I miss you guys though so I’m reposting a newsletter from 2022 that I absolutely LOVE and feel that many of you didn’t get to see. Plus, I made this post before Substack invented the ~poll~ option so I never got to see everyone’s answer.

Mar 16, 2025 | liantomato.substack.com | Lian Cho

Everyone say HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESS!!!You can buy Jess’ books here. If you want a snazzy print with it, you can also order them here. She has a great one coming out soon and if you order it it would be a really really cool way to say happy birthday to her!Anyways, I can hear every one of you screaming behind your screens, “LIAN GO PACK?!” but I simply do not hear anything!!!Okay, jokes aside, we technically started lightly packing a couple weeks ago.