Paisley Gilmour

1 month ago | theguardian.com | Paisley Gilmour

You have to have chemistry or feel a sparkFor Toby Ingham, psychotherapist and author of How to Improve Emotional Stability, referring to that sought-after spark as “chemistry” is an interesting analogy. “In dating, it tends to describe an immediate reaction, whereas lots of chemical reactions take time,” he says. Still, many of us chase a spark. “It’s overrated,” says Lohani Noor, a psychotherapist and founding director of The Institute for Relational and Sexual Therapies.

1 month ago | cosmopolitan.com | Paisley Gilmour

Don’t get it backwards (pun intended): Doggy style is a classic, and for good reason. Why? Well, for starters, sex in doggy allows for targeted internal hot-spot stimulation (otherwise known as the G-spot). If you are, or your partner is, a fan of deep penetration, it’s a great bet for orgasm. It's easy to get into from other positions, it allows for the seamless integration of sex toys, and it's a switch-up from classic missionary into something equally-classic but just a little more intense.

2 months ago | cosmopolitan.com | Paisley Gilmour |Lois Shearing

Anal fingering can be pretty great for men or people with penises, in no small part thanks to the added bonus of a prostate massage. However, while women and people with vaginas don’t happen to have a prostate gland (aka, a P-spot), ass fingering can still feel amazing thanks to all of the sensitive nerves in the area. But the positives don’t stop there. Surprise! You can also use anal fingering to stimulate your internal hot spots from the inside, too.

Mar 20, 2025 | cosmopolitan.com | Paisley Gilmour |Lily Chang

Skip 感情中的權力失衡，可能對女性造成嚴重損害！ By Paisley Gilmour and Lily ChangPublished: 2025/03/20 權力不平衡如何影響愛情或婚姻？ 研究發現，無論男性或女性，都有可能是關係中的主導方或從屬方。然而，當受試者認為自己的伴侶擁有較多權力時，他們普遍覺得這段關係較不穩定，也較缺乏親密感，反之亦然。 研究作者Bay-Cheng 指出，當談及權力與關係品質時，所謂的「性別平等」似乎並未真正實現，特別是對女性而言。 研究顯示，在關係中分享權力的伴侶，普遍比那些處於從屬地位的人更幸福。然而，這種權力不平衡對女性的影響比男性更嚴重——那些認為自己的伴侶較為主導的女性，更容易感受到關係的不穩定與缺乏親密感。甚至有些女性形容她們的關係「充滿動盪」（研究中直接使用了「tumultuous」一詞）。 另一方面，當男性認為女友擁有較多權力時，他們受到的影響卻遠比女性輕微。 >>戀愛腦注意！這關係根本就「有毒」，只要出現這「八個」跡象就代表他不是對的人！「第六點」根本是PUA！ 權力不對等，女性容易遭受操控或虐待...

Feb 27, 2025 | msn.com | Paisley Gilmour

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