Jenna Ryu

1 day ago | vogue.in | Jenna Ryu

You’ve probably heard the phrase ‘victim mentality’ tossed around before—it’s a buzzy red flag on Instagram nowadays. Maybe you’ve even used it yourself when that one coworker blames their constant tardiness on irrelevant, never-ending struggles. Or your partner spouts off yet another excuse for why they were too tired to do the dishes. But while you might have found yourself wondering whether someone else was playing the victim, have you ever turned the question on yourself?

1 day ago | vogue.com.tw | Jenna Ryu |Zuya Zheng

跟周遭的人透露自己有在使用AI工具，通常會出現兩種反應：「科技真是太棒了對吧！」又或者，對方可能會露出懷疑和不信任的表情，跟你說他們很害怕未來會變成像2013年電影《雲端情人Her》那樣。我對科技發展的觀點比較偏向後者，直到前幾天晚上我的鄰居舉辦盛大的派對一路吵到半夜一點。我需要一段簡訊文字，幫助我用友善的語氣充分表達「你可以給我安靜一點嗎」但不要演變成電梯內打照面尷尬不已的狀況。所以我打算請ChatGPT代勞。長話短說，之後鄰居不曾深夜喧鬧，而且我們的關係還算是和諧。關於AI會如何毀掉我們的生活，確實有很多傳言，但類似這樣派上用場的時機，不禁讓我思考還有什麼狀況下ChatGPT是非常好用的。當然我不期待演算法解決艱深的存在主義問題，像是要不要結束一段長期關係或是怎麼「根除」我的季節性焦慮，但挑戰處理一些令人不舒服的日常對話，說不定還有機會。作為一名永遠充滿好奇心的編輯，我決定把一些難以抉擇的處境丟給它，來看看它的建議有多實際，並把結果交給一名合格的人類諮商師來加以評估。最終我們會把結果以1至10來評分。以下，來看看AI能否成功幫助我們擺脫困難的情境，或者只會雪上加霜？1.

1 day ago | self.com | Jenna Ryu

Ghosting is practically baked into our modern culture—it’s too easy to cut contact with someone you don’t feel like talking to. But learning how to get over being ghosted—whether it was a promising potential partner or a friend pulling a disappearing act—is a lot harder than most people would like to admit. At first, it seems like an easy thing to brush off. So what if they’re not texting back? People do it for all sorts of reasons, many of which aren’t personal.

1 day ago | yahoo.com | Jenna Ryu

Juan Moyano/Getty ImagesGhosting is practically baked into our modern culture—it’s too easy to cut contact with someone you don’t feel like talking to. But learning how to get over being ghosted—whether it was a promising potential partner or a friend pulling a disappearing act—is a lot harder than most people would like to admit. At first, it seems like an easy thing to brush off. So what if they’re not texting back? People do it for all sorts of reasons, many of which aren’t personal.

2 days ago | vogue.in | Jenna Ryu

Not that long ago, running a marathon (at least in my mind) was reserved for those I considered “real” runners—the genetically blessed, hyper-disciplined ones who collected shiny medals and enjoyed waking up at 5am. Me? I couldn’t even make it through a single song without giving up, let alone going for hours and calling that “fun.”Then, I turned 25. I was still young (everyone reminded me of that), but also old enough to feel the pressure to “have it all together.” A steady job.